Hit-up Obstacles You Might Encounter & How to Deal with Them

In real life, most of the girls around you are just plain. When you meet a girl who makes you feel excited, but don't know how to start a conversation, this is the main reason why you are still single. Sometimes we don’t necessarily hit up on a girl to date her, most often times, for guys they prefer to take them to bed for a one night stand…

Learn to start a conversation, let you calmly hit up on a girl on the street, try to get a girl for a one night hook up dating. And enhance your first impression. These are things we are going to discuss today.

Hit up obstacles

If you are not a handsome, then there is no doubt that there will be obstacles to hit up on a girl. These obstacles are very likely to make you give up the idea of getting a one night hook up. And even make you give up the idea of hit up on her at all! The following will explain all these obstacle you may encounter one by one.

“Why do you want to know me?”

If a girl’s attitude is friendly and amiable, then the essence of this hit-up barrier is that a girl cares about the present and the past, she wants to know "What brought you to me?", the suggested response "I just saw you. So I just want to talk to you very much and get to know you more. I ran over to talk to you on impulse."

If the girl’s attitude is serious and slightly guarded, then the nature of the obstacle to hit-up is that the girl cares about the possibility of the future. She wants to know "What is the purpose of your coming over to know me? The answer would be: " At first sight, I think maybe we can be friends~"

“You scared me”

Some girls will directly express their emotional state when they are hit up. However, honest people will think that their hit up has caused trouble to the girls, and they don't know what to say, or even just go away.

In fact, the girl took the initiative to inform you of her emotional state, which is also a manifestation of further communication. The suggested response is "I'm sorry, because I really want to know you. But if I don’t come over, I think I might not know when the next meeting will be. I didn't expect to scare you. I'm really sorry"

“This is not so appropriate, right?”

Some girls feel shy when they are hit up, so they say, "That's not appropriate, right?" Honest people directly think this is a sign of rejection and simply slip away.

At this time, you need to reasonably convince her, even if it's a nonsense, she will agree still. After all, attractive talents will be accosted. Suggested response would be: "Well, people never know me!" "Why do you know me?" "Because you are beautiful/because we are very destined/because today is a good day…"